All posts by Mary Yolanda Trigiani

Experience: professional services, boards, strategy, accounting, consulting, investment management, banking, technology. Ethic: urgency, efficiency, candor, humor, spirit.

Linwood Holton: How to make politics personal

I grew up in a very small town in a remote corner of Virginia.  Big Stone Gap.

How we got there from an Italian-American enclave in northeast Pennsylvania is a long story.  When we got there, Virginia was dragging itself kicking and screaming into an age of enlightenment.  What I like to think of as an entire society understanding that being reasonable is a continuous learning process.

One of the lights of the age, and there were many, was a native of Big Stone Gap who became the state’s first Republican governor since Reconstruction.  As this article tells us, he now has an autobiography.

Its timing is excellent, as the brief interview in the article demonstrates.  For example.  Governor Holton’s son-in-law, Tim Kaine, is Virginia’s current governor.  And he’s a Democrat.  Both former and current governor have come out for Barack Obama.

Linwood Holton flies out of the pigeonholes that our society so often wants to use for labeling and digestion purposes.  He did it in 1970, and he’s doing it now.  His story reminds us that the most important things are ideas and actions, and in American politics, that the focus should be keeping our nation’s founding principles not just alive but relevant to our daily lives.  Whatever your political philosophy.

In this article, the writer recounts the story of how Governor and Mrs Holton made the decision to send their children to Richmond’s public schools during the big integration ruckus in the state at that time.

Those who knew the Holtons understood this to be neither a political olive branch nor a grandstand.  Like many Virginians, some of whom had to learn it the hard way, the Holtons understood that fairness is the hallmark of a healthy society.

Thumb_holtonAnd something else you should know:  in this famous photograph, Tayloe Holton is wearing a dress made by the people of Miss Virginia, Inc, a garment manufacturer in Big Stone Gap.  Where I worked a couple of summers in the finishing department.  A business my dad started and lost, but one that still managed to produce some winning moments.

Including having the governor of Virginia remember the folks back home as he made a point to a larger world.

Richard Widmark

Reading obituaries, one learns about life.  And how to live it.

I also like the story behind the story, especially actors.  It’s interesting to learn what propels them into a most public occupation.

Richard Widmark really knew how to do it.  That’s why reading his obituary today in THE NEW YORK TIMES was bittersweet.

One thing he knew about was personal branding — even if he never heard or used the phrase.  It’s because he knew who he was and stuck to it.  That takes a great deal of discipline. 

Maybe it’s because he had qualities I admire that I found the story of his life so very interesting to read.  Maybe it’s because I’m starting to understand how the small decisions and observations all contribute to who we are — to the personal brands we build over a lifetime.

“The businessmen who run Hollywood today have no
self-respect. What interests them is not movies but the bottom line.
Look at ‘Dumb and Dumber,’ which turns idiocy into something positive,
or ‘Forrest Gump,’ a hymn to stupidity. ‘Intellectual’ has become a
dirty word.”

He also vowed he would never appear on a talk show
on television, saying, “When I see people destroying their privacy —
what they think, what they feel — by beaming it out to millions of
viewers, I think it cheapens them as individuals.”

A magnificent speech

Senator Obama’s speech is a watershed in American history.

It is the beginning of the end of race as a front-and-center issue in assessing a person’s suitability for office.  But it is so much more.

Senator Obama illuminates the power — logically, personally, movingly — of living a life that acknowledges pain but moves on from it.  He teaches us how to discern between blind loyalty and loving friendship.  He shows the worthiness of tying each American’s journey, whatever his or her ethnic background, to the whole of the American community. 

Race never should have been a divisive aspect of our national dialog.  It should have been a quality used to demonstrate the landmark nature of our national call to action, as articulated in our founding documents. 

How appropriate that the senator delivered this speech in Philadelphia, where patriots of another age set down the most remarkable set of tenets ever articulated for self government.  With this message, the senator from Illinois reaches into those tenets to put any rationale for racial division to rest.  He has shown us that his legacy is our legacy, through anecdotes that could be from my story or your story, via a logic stream that only a rare mind can conceive.

I am grateful that this man has appeared in this time.  Whether or not he is the next American president, his capacity to lead through healing as well as mightiness will be of great value to us all.  The world will be better than he found it.

Data portability, anyone?

As part of my work with foldier, we are volunteering with dataportability.org — a global group of technology industry people and companies dedicated to researching current standards for giving individuals control of their digital content/property.

When you visit the site, you'll see all the different aspects of portability that the industry must consider.  Our participation has been a real learning experience for me.

And since foldier is all about helping people manage their digital content, our participation is helping us to clarify the features we want to provide and emphasize on foldier.

Click here to read the February activity report — things should really start rolling, now that the collaboration platform is set.

Self discipline and your social graph

Susan Mernit wrote an excellent short essay yesterday.  Gives the best definition of the problem with all the wonderful social doo-dads we have on the Internet.